Bird Dads: The Best and Worst Avian Fathers This Father's Day

by MossStephen on Jun 17 2026
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    Dr Stephen Moss.
    Global Chief Birding Adviser, NETVUE Birdfy • Reviewed by the Birdfy Ornithology Team • Published June 2026

    This Father's Day, we're celebrating the most dedicated dads in the animal kingdom. Dr. Stephen Moss reveals the five best and five worst avian fathers, and explains why even the 'deadbeat dads' are following a perfectly logical evolutionary strategy.

    Of all the creatures on Earth, birds are among the most attentive and hardworking fathers. Many avian dads play a full role in the entire breeding cycle: building the nest, incubating the eggs, feeding the chicks, and sometimes continuing to provide food and protection long after fledging. A remarkable few genuinely earn the title of nature's superdads.

    This makes perfect biological sense. A father who invests in his offspring is more likely to raise healthy young that survive to breed themselves, passing on his genes. For most bird species, two parents really are better than one.

    But of course, as in the human world, there are exceptions…

    The Best and Worst Avian Fathers

    Quick Answer

    The Emperor Penguin tops the list. He incubates a single egg on his feet for eight weeks through the Antarctic winter, eating nothing. Phalaropes, Emus, Northern Cardinals, and Sandgrouse are also standout avian fathers. At the other end of the scale, Hummingbirds and Cuckoos take no part in parenting at all.

    Bird Dads at a Glance: Best and Worst Fathers

    Use the table below to quickly compare nature's most and least involved avian dads.

    Bird Dad Rating What He Does
    Phalarope ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Does ALL incubation & chick-rearing; female leaves entirely
    Emperor Penguin ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Incubates egg on his feet for 8 weeks through Antarctic winter
    Emu ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Incubates eggs & guards chicks solo for up to 18 months
    Northern Cardinal ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Takes lion's share of parenting while mate starts second brood
    Sandgrouse ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Flies up to 40 miles daily to soak feathers with water for chicks
    Black Grouse Spends all energy on elaborate lekking displays; zero parenting
    Common Cuckoo Lays eggs in other birds' nests; parents never see their young
    Grey-headed Albatross ⭐⭐ Takes long solo shifts at sea while mate incubates; joins after hatch
    Hummingbird Zero parenting across all 366 species — feeds, fights, and leaves

    The Five Best Bird Dads

    Phalaropes — The Ultimate Role-Reversal Dads

    Phalaropes

    As I noted in my Mother’s Day blog last month, the three species of small, colourful waders known as phalaropes (Red/Grey, Red-necked and Wilson’s) are very unusual in the bird world, in that they display ‘reverse sexual dimorphism’.

    This means that the male takes on the more usual female role of incubating the eggs (once the female has laid them!) and then raising the tiny chicks to fledging, while the female takes no part at all in this crucial process.

    Two other waders – jacanas and the Eurasian Dotterel – also show this role reversal between males and females.

    Emperor Penguin — The Antarctic Superdad

    Emperor Penguin

    This species displays an exemplary fathering role and has been described as ‘stay-at-home dads’. This time, once the female penguin has laid her single egg, she carefully passes it to the male, who then incubates it for eight weeks on the tops of his feet, while she makes the long and tiring journey to the sea to feed and replenish her energy resources. When she finally returns, she then raises the chick while her mate goes to feed.

    Emus - Australia's Long-Haul Dad

    Emus and baby

    Behind the two species of ostrich, the third-largest bird in the world, is a great example of dad duties. Once the female has laid her clutch of between 5 and 15 eggs, she goes off to start another family, leaving her mate to perform all the incubation duties.

    These can take up to eight weeks, during which he does not feed but lives on stored fat reserves. Even after the chicks have hatched, and can walk and feed for themselves, he takes good care of them until they are fully-grown – a period of as long as one-and-a-half years.

    Northern Cardinal— The Backyard Superdad

    Northern Cardinal and baby

    One of North America’s most familiar and best-loved backyard birds, male cardinals are exemplary parents, taking on the lion’s share of the parental duties while their mate builds a second nest and lays a second clutch of eggs.

    Sandgrouse — The Desert Water-Carrier

    Sandgrouse and baby

    Males of these desert-dwelling species fly every morning to the nearest sources of water – a round trip of up to forty miles. Once there, they soak their specially evolved, sponge-like breast feathers in water, then fly back to their young and allow them to drink directly from their feathers.

    The Five Worst Bird Dads

    Common Cuckoo — The Original Deadbeat Dad

    Common Cuckoo

    Because cuckoos practice ‘brood parasitism’, in which the parents of the host species do all the hard work of incubating the egg and raising the chick, neither male nor female cuckoos have anything to do with their offspring.

    Yet this unusual strategy really does work: cuckoos can have as many as twenty young in twenty different nests, all being raised by their unsuspecting foster parents while the parents head back to Africa for the majority of the year.

    Black Grouse — All Show, No Parenting

    Black Grouse

    The male Black Grouse of Europe and Asia plays absolutely no part in the raising of their young. Instead, they put all their energy into the ‘lek’: a kind of arena where the males strut, call, and perform to impress the watching females, with the most dominant male usually mating with the vast majority.

    Lekking is also performed by several North American members of this family, including Greater Sage-Grouse, Sharp-tailed Grouse, and the Greater and Lesser Prairie-Chickens.

    Grey-headed Albatross — A Complex Case

    Grey-headed Albatross

    This one requires a little nuance. While most albatrosses are ‘hands-on dads’, the Grey-headed comes out on top by taking on the majority of the duties of incubating the precious single egg, for several weeks at a time, while the female goes out to sea to feed. Once the chick has hatched, both male and female go to find food.

    Most Backyard Birds — Actually Great Dads

    tits

    Here's a surprise entry: the vast majority of backyard birds – tits and chickadees, robins and blackbirds, for example – share the parental duties of incubating the eggs and raising the chicks. This can require superhuman efforts by both mums and dads, who need to find and bring back as many as one thousand items of food every single day!

    Hummingbirds — The Ultimate Absentee Fathers

    Hummingbirds

    There are currently 366 species of hummingbird recognised by ornithologists – one for every day of a leap year! Yet not a single one plays any part in building the nest, incubating the eggs, or feeding the chicks. Instead, they feed, fight other males, and defend their territories – the ultimate deadbeat dads!

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    FAQs about Bird Fathers

    Do male birds help raise chicks?

    In the majority of bird species, yes. Males and females share parenting duties. In many garden and backyard species, both parents make hundreds of feeding trips per day to keep hungry chicks alive. However, some species, including cuckoos, grouse, and hummingbirds, are notable exceptions where fathers play little or no role.

    Which bird incubates eggs alone?

    Several birds incubate entirely without their partner, including the Emperor Penguin (male only), the Emu (male only), and the phalaropes (also male only). In these species, a combination of role reversal and evolutionary adaptation means the male has taken on all incubation duties.

    Are hummingbirds bad fathers?

    Yes, in every one of the 366 recognised hummingbird species, the male plays no role in nest construction, incubation, or feeding the young. Once mating is complete, the female raises the chicks entirely alone.

    What bird flies long distances to bring water to its chicks?

    The Sandgrouse — a desert-dwelling bird found across Africa and Asia — is famous for its remarkable water-carrying behaviour. Males fly up to 40 miles to water sources, soak their specially adapted breast feathers, and fly back to allow their chicks to drink directly from them.

    Final Words

    What's remarkable about bird fatherhood is the sheer diversity of approaches — and the fact that all of them, from the Emperor Penguin's heroic eight-week fast to the hummingbird's total absence, have produced species that are thriving.

    Evolution doesn't reward effort for its own sake. It rewards outcomes — healthy young that survive to breed. Whether that requires a dad who carries water 40 miles in his feathers, or one who leaves all parenting to mum, the result is the same: another generation.

    So this Father's Day, whether you're celebrating a hands-on dad or a more laid-back one, you're in good company with the birds.

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    About the Author

    Dr. Stephen Moss is one of the UK's leading naturalists, broadcasters, and wildlife writers, and serves as Global Chief Birding Adviser to NETVUE Birdfy. He is a former series producer with the BBC Natural History Unit, and has written more than 40 books on birds and wildlife. He lives in Somerset, UK, surrounded by the birds he loves.

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